Behavior of humans is highly whimsical, they cannot excise control over their mind. It’s more of circumstances moderating the demeanor. Humans blow their own trumpet for reining the world, but don’t feel abashed of the reality that one has no hold over himself.
One doesn’t tire out looking forward to sunny day for himself while sabotaging some one else’s repose. The saying ‘Be the change you want to see in the world’ can be tweaked to be ‘Behave the way you wish to be treated’. If one can go about maltreating others then why does he fear and detest of being treated the same….
There is a noble saying ‘To err is human and forgive is divine’. This saying is applicable to forgiver and the forgiven. For each would be in the shoe of the other some time or later. The words are mightier than sword strikes, as the impact ; the former causes is not only invisible but also unperceivable.
They say that the tongue is made of the softest muscles so it rotates so extremely loose. No prizes for guessing the post effect of this spearhead when left unrestrained. The arrow released never fails to ruthlessly bruise off the subject it encounters. When one has no control of his mind, the control that the mind would have on this missile or rather dynamite can be anticipated.
It seems to me a paradox as to how such words of bitterness source from a literate and cultured mind.
Where a nasty behavior and unkind words can harm and mentally distress the other, amicable behavior and compassionate words can not only solace and comfort the other.
Each of us is living a life choke-filled with ones own hitches and glitches, so the tiniest help one could do to the other is; not to plug-in additional microbes of distress. Alternatively one could share a shoulder and emollient the other with words of placebo...
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